Clients come and go, but some of them stay with us. The ones that are the hardest are the ones that follow us home. Not literally a client accompanying us to our domiciles, no. I am referring to a case that just won't let us go on with our days without thinking back to it. Some part of it just seems to worry at us and we cannot let it go.
Self care and the ability to shut the book on the day is a big part of what it is to be a balanced person, and a successful magical vendor/worker. You come into contact with hundreds of people throughout the year. Taking home spiritual contamination, and the worries of the world, will not allow you to be healthy and whole and effective. You must draw the line, or be drawn down into an abyss of your own making. As we do in this series, let us look at a scenario that speaks to this point.
The less healthy way to process this case
Ajanay W. has come to you with a serious problem. She began a working over a month ago, under the advice of a friend with a book. She did not do a divination, so was completely surprised that her life has now imploded. Not only has she lost the objective she sought to keep, but she has suffered a huge personal set back. Your heart bleeds for her and you begin to work together on her options, and select some appropriate tools and plans.
In this particular case, she decided to go for a the job position of a coworker. She felt she was better qualified for the position. Ajanay W. did a petition spell and accompanied it with lamp magic. Unfortunately for her, she did not word it correctly. She also did not put in a way to undo what she had done. She has now lost her job, been offered a job for half the pay at another company, and is seen as a troublemaker at her old one.
Ajanay W. has come to you to try to fix her situation. Not only did she not follow her friend's advice, you strongly suspect that she will not follow yours. You try to make sure you explain clearly what she needs to correct and wish her well.
For the next week, you find yourself thinking about Ajanay W.. You wonder if she is using the tools she purchased correctly. You ask yourself if you could have added anything. You replay your conversations in your mind and second guess yourself. Even after knowing you were correct in what you did, you still keep worrying about her and her progress. You even think of her at home. You cannot let it go, and decide to just let it work its way out of your thoughts naturally.
A way that may be a better for your well being
Ajanay W. has come to you with a serious problem. She began a working over a month ago, under the advice of a friend with a book. She did not do a divination, so was completely surprised that her life has now imploded. Not only has she lost the objective she sought to keep, but she has suffered a huge personal set back. Your heart bleeds for her and you begin to work together on her options, and select some appropriate tools and plans.
That night, you find yourself thinking a lot about Ajanay W. You find yourself bothered by recurring thoughts of her welfare. You recognize this is not the way you can maintain your separation from your business life. You decide to create an affirmation that you repeat several times that ends the day for you.
Example: And now it comes, the end of the day. The cares of work are put away.
Short and sweet, but it is still effective. Yours may be a lot longer. For people who do ongoing work for clients, it will have to be customized to suit your situation. But the idea is the same.
You cannot pour energy from an empty cup, and in order to not leak, you must hold yours upright. This means not letting others concerns tip you off balance. Work time is work time. Let the laborer rest when the work day is complete.
Self care and the ability to shut the book on the day is a big part of what it is to be a balanced person, and a successful magical vendor/worker. You come into contact with hundreds of people throughout the year. Taking home spiritual contamination, and the worries of the world, will not allow you to be healthy and whole and effective. You must draw the line, or be drawn down into an abyss of your own making. As we do in this series, let us look at a scenario that speaks to this point.
The less healthy way to process this case
Ajanay W. has come to you with a serious problem. She began a working over a month ago, under the advice of a friend with a book. She did not do a divination, so was completely surprised that her life has now imploded. Not only has she lost the objective she sought to keep, but she has suffered a huge personal set back. Your heart bleeds for her and you begin to work together on her options, and select some appropriate tools and plans.
In this particular case, she decided to go for a the job position of a coworker. She felt she was better qualified for the position. Ajanay W. did a petition spell and accompanied it with lamp magic. Unfortunately for her, she did not word it correctly. She also did not put in a way to undo what she had done. She has now lost her job, been offered a job for half the pay at another company, and is seen as a troublemaker at her old one.
Ajanay W. has come to you to try to fix her situation. Not only did she not follow her friend's advice, you strongly suspect that she will not follow yours. You try to make sure you explain clearly what she needs to correct and wish her well.
For the next week, you find yourself thinking about Ajanay W.. You wonder if she is using the tools she purchased correctly. You ask yourself if you could have added anything. You replay your conversations in your mind and second guess yourself. Even after knowing you were correct in what you did, you still keep worrying about her and her progress. You even think of her at home. You cannot let it go, and decide to just let it work its way out of your thoughts naturally.
A way that may be a better for your well being
Ajanay W. has come to you with a serious problem. She began a working over a month ago, under the advice of a friend with a book. She did not do a divination, so was completely surprised that her life has now imploded. Not only has she lost the objective she sought to keep, but she has suffered a huge personal set back. Your heart bleeds for her and you begin to work together on her options, and select some appropriate tools and plans.
That night, you find yourself thinking a lot about Ajanay W. You find yourself bothered by recurring thoughts of her welfare. You recognize this is not the way you can maintain your separation from your business life. You decide to create an affirmation that you repeat several times that ends the day for you.
Example: And now it comes, the end of the day. The cares of work are put away.
Short and sweet, but it is still effective. Yours may be a lot longer. For people who do ongoing work for clients, it will have to be customized to suit your situation. But the idea is the same.
You cannot pour energy from an empty cup, and in order to not leak, you must hold yours upright. This means not letting others concerns tip you off balance. Work time is work time. Let the laborer rest when the work day is complete.
Little River band - Shut Down Turn Off
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