Things to do during Imbolc season for my Southeast Michigan Pagans

 The Wheel turns, and with it, it is time to turn our selves toward coming out of hibernation and enjoy fellowship.  As a service, your friendly neighborhood inkslinger is providing a little fun activity guide for you to consider as you welcome the fiery creativity of Imbolc.  New and familiar things to try and do await you.

Most of the readers of this blog, and the former column, know that one never knows what will be in these guides.  That is part of the fun.  But just know, that if they are in one of these lists, either they are put on by Pagans, are popular with Pagans, are geared toward Pagans, or are of interest to Pagans here  in Metro Detroit.  So you will not likely be alone.  We are everywhere.

Archetypes of the Gods, 

Janurary 21, 2016, 7:10 PM - 9:00 PM
"Many have looked at the gods and see that many similar types of deity can be identified. In this class we will look at these similarities and how they have shaped modern paganism. We will also look at incorporating some of these energies into your own practice." $10.00 Temple donation.  The Pagan Pathways Temple, 28736 John R Rd Madison Heights, MI 48071.


 Essential Oils for the Immune System w/Janet Callahan
 January 27, 2016, 7 PM
"Learn about how to safely use essential oils to help support your immune system. I'll be creating a brand-free zone here (we all have our favorites) but will be speaking in more general terms than in terms of specific brands." $10 per person.  The Pagan Pathways Temple, 28736 John R Rd Madison Heights, MI 48071.

 

 Breaking Borders "Spellbound"!!! 
 January 30, 2016,  7 PM - 11:55 PM

 "A Celebration of Creativity through Art, Music, Performance, Fashion, and more!
18+, Voodoo priestess, Ms. Lambergiinnii, Snake Charming by Dani Dracaena, magical all Body paint Fashion show, and more. Proceeds from art sales will be donated to Burners Without Borders

 $15 Cover.  Tangent Gallery / Hastings Street Ballroom,715 E Milwaukee St, Detroit, Michigan 48202

  

Pagan Pathways Temple - Imbolc Ritual and Potluck Saturday, January 30, 2016, 5 PM - 8 PM.                                            "Join Pagan Pathways Temple as we celebrate Imbolc. Stay after Ritual for a potluck with the community. Please bring a dish to pass."  The Pagan Pathways Temple, 28736 John R Rd Madison Heights, MI 48071.

Shining Lakes Grove, ADF Imbolc Ritual
January 31, 2 PM - 5 PM
"Come join us as we honor Bríd, our Grove's goddess of inspiration. There will be a potluck and a raffle after the rite. All welcome." Ann Arbor Friends Meeting,1420 Hill St, Ann Arbor, Michigan 48104

Northern Mysteries Protogrove, ADF - Dísablót/Disting
 January 31,at 10 AM
"Dísablót is a celebration of the female ancestors and was traditionally held in conjunction with Disting, or the major social and political gathering of the Swedes. Join us as we remember our foremothers and honor the Earth (Hretha) as She prepares to wake from Her long winter slumber. " 
Columbus, Ohio (specifics shared with RSVP since it's at someone's home)


 IDEA's Frozen Heart Masquerade Ball
February 5, 8 PM - 2 AM
"Come one, come all! Ignite Detroit Entertainment association is taking over the Tangent Gallery for a masquerade ball. We will be doing things a little differently; Three stages, and one big dance floor. Masks and formal wear STRONGLY encouraged. Tickets $15, or two for $20 ." Tangent Gallery / Hastings Street Ballroom, 715 E Milwaukee St, Detroit, Michigan 48202


Imbolc Celebration and Rights of Rededication 
Saturday, February 6, 2016, 3 PM - 6 PM
"On February 6, 2016, please join us as we mark the turning of the wheel with a public Imbolc ritual encouraging the return of the sun; hold sacred space for those who choose to brave the Rites of Passage Re/Dedication (see below for more information on participating and RSVP details); followed by a potluck and fellowship. For more info about Imbolc, please visit- http://paganwiccan.about.com/od/imbolcfebruary2/p/Imbolc_History.htm.   For more information, or to RSVP as a dedicant in the re/dedication rites of passage, please contact Jack Mercer via phone at 810-919-0582, or via email at revjmercer@gmail.com. There is no need to RSVP for the open Imbolc ritual, but we do ask that you RSVP if you plan to participate in the re/dedication rites so that we may plan accordingly. We are looking very forward to sharing sacred space with you! Presented by the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Flint Pagans. Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Flint, 2474 S Ballenger Hwy, Flint, MI 48507

Cedarsong Grove,ADF - Imbolc Ritual (PUBLIC), 

 February 6, 2016 Time TBD

"Please join us for our annual Imbolc rite. Set-up, prep, and ritual times TBD. The ritual site allows for the use of indoor facilities, so plans tentatively include a potluck feast following the ritual. Please check back mid-January for updates, or email herald@cedarsongadf.org for more information." 
 I.A.M.M., 5705 S. Washington, Lansing, MI 48911,

 Capoeira Angola for Healthy Living Workshop - w/Contra-Mestre Pequenininho, 
 February 6 - February 7,Feb 6 at 12 PM to Feb 7 at 4 PM
"Hello everyone come join us and share in the beauty which is Capoeira Angola through the use of everyday healthy practice. The following 2 days will be filled with fitness, laughter, music and growth through Capoeira Angola as taught by Contra-Mestre Pequenininho. This is a great opportunity to learn a new infinite workout to help those long winter days.  Location:
Fee: $20 per day $35 for both days." Tabcat Detroit - Eastpointe,23051 Gratiot Ave, Eastpointe, Michigan 48021

The Smokey Crystal - Imbolc
February 7, 2PM
Go to their website for further details as they arise.

 Ferndale Mardi Bras 2016
 February 9,at 6 PM - 9 PM
Celebrate Mardi Bras by giving to women in need in our communities while celebrating Mardi Gras at The Loving Touch.

Please bring:
Bras (new)
Underwear (new)
Tampons
Pads
Menstrual cups
Panty liners
Wet wipes/feminine wipes
Women's socks
Other toiletries or comfort items
One gallon Zip Lock bags
 The Loving Touch,22634 Woodward Ave, Ferndale, Michigan 48220

Pagan Business Network restructures and expands its reach

Seize the day!  That seems to be the cry of the Pagan Business Network, and the personal mission of its founder Charissa Iskiwitch.   What started as a modest proposal to empower Pagan business owners to take control of their destinies together has turned into a virtual blossoming entrepreneurial empire.  Building upon the momentum of the initial vision, it is striving to present a banquet of various media for the consumer to enjoy and from which to choose.

Those familiar with this dynamic organization will already be very familiar with its online presence.  But for those who may not have had a chance to really check them out, let's talk first about what they already have going.  In addition to acquiring the Pagan Black Book, social media has been very good business.

Their Facebook game is strong, as they maintain

• A Community Page
• Their Marketplace
• A Group for Discussion   
• The Pagan Black Book
• The PBN Street Team

Twitter has been caught up in the wave as well.  With members using the little blue bird of marketing happiness for a messenger, they have increased both sales and exposure for their membership  To see what is new, click here. 

While the conventional social media has been very good to the PBN, it has found that it is time to hatch from the falcon's egg and spread its wings far and wide.  The platforms used up until now are no longer adequate to deliver the entire experience that the network wants to provide.  


Paid membership has now been made into a viable and desirable option in order to enable the expansion of services that features perks and an exposure base that previously was only envisioned for long term in the future.  Well the future has become now.  The time for growth has come, and they have recognized that in order to succeed, they had to expand beyond what they have already created and strive to build even more upon its foundation.

"The only man who behaved sensibly was my tailor; he took my measurement anew every time he saw me, while all the rest went on with their old measurements and expected them to fit me." --George Bernard Shaw

While still maintaining their commitment to their Facebook ground floor members, they have expanded the resources available to paid membership in order to fund their growth.  When the business is more than a hobby, this is the next step.  With  paid membership comes 

•  Business Spotlights
•  Social Media Sharing
•  Blogroll
•  Membership Card
•  Pagan Packs by PBN
• First Call: Group Advertisements
• Advertising Page on PBN Website
• Basic Social Media Analysis
• Basic Graphic Design / Marketing Analysis
• Referrals
• Social Media Sharing (Street Team)
• Reduced Rates on Radio & Web Ads
• Add Ons
•  Business Listing on the Website
•  Access to Business Discussions on Facebook 
• Reviews
•  Swag Bags
•  Donations for Events
•  Sharing Ladders
•  Group Ads

They have invested in a professional broadcast platform for a radio station.   This will also include a mobile app that will soon allow streaming for the station.  Advertisers will be able to have both and audio, and visual, presence, with this utility.

Pagan musicians everywhere are encouraged to contact them to be featured on the station.  They are looking for music of all genres.  Devotional, spiritual, popular, tribal, rock, funk, chant, all these and more are welcome.  Those who compose instrumental music are also sought as well.

On air personality interviews, show ideas, event coverage, all these are in the plans.  Not a one trick pony, the station seeks to become a source of entertainment, enlightenment, and constant growth as far as shows and music.   And of course, members of the PBN will be right in there for spotlights, interviews, product reviews, and other advertising.

Business owners a chance to lend a voice to their names, give sound bites, and promote themselves.  Interviews, and shows, will also be featured as part of the regular programming on the station and on the new YouTube channel.  Videos of these interviews, event coverage, and more will comprise the promising content of this visual component of support.
 

Another intriguing development is the creation of a news site.  Featuring blogs, columns, interviews, and contributor columns, this will be the place that the public can go to find out about local and national events of interest to Pagans, read reviews, enjoy fun articles and learn.

Pagan Business Network is looking for columnists, bloggers, feature writers, serialists, illustrators, reporters, and interviewers for this venture.  Got an idea that you would love to see someone cover, if you are a writer, this is your chance.  Whether a reporter style column, blog post, or human interest piece, the doors are open to contributors.  Members can also earn special incentives by submitting pieces as well.

Be on the lookout for their Virtual Street Team.  A marketing body of the PBN, team members earn rewards by sharing ads and hashtags.  Yet another of the services groups under the umbrella of the main group, it allows for people who excel in this area to earn rewards and incentives.  Charissa sums it up best when she says

"This is will help build the PBN enabling it to bring you better resources."

The sheer magnitude of what Charissa has envisioned has necessitated the need for the creation of a staff that can be mini Atlasses to her world.  These include:

• Sadie Odinsdottir - Marketing Director
• Cardea Hinges - Administrative Director
• Kenya Coviak - Managing News Director
• Dru Ann Welch - Accounting Director
• Mark Dennard - Website Director 
• Scooter McMillan - Music Program Director
• David Iskiwitch - Broadcast Station Director
• Charissa Iskiwitch - The CEO and Owner ( this writer also refers to her as the Ringmaster)

And in 2018, the plan is for an actual physical conference.  That is right, a convention.  A gathering of the tribes, so to speak, to come together for workshops, presentations, seminars, and most importantly, networking.

But that is not going to be the only place presenters will be called on.  Webinars, interviews, and more are all in the plan.  Watch what happens next.

(Full disclosure: I am in PBN, so now you know.  No shock, hunh?)

Smokey Crystal keeps on rising

The story of "The Little Engine That Could" is a pale portrait of perseverance when compared to that epitome of adaptable mastery and gumption The Smokey Crystal.  Long beloved as the favorite down river spot for Pagan Southeast Michigan communities, it served as a haven and library for many years.  And like many jewels, it sometimes has to pass through different settings for people to appreciate the lustrous jade in their hands.

Michigan is a changeable realm.  The Fresh Water Seas are ever exerting their ebbs and flows, and so does our economy.  Pagans feel these tides, and our businesses sometimes need to make changes in order to ride the tides.  That is why it is so very important to shop locally and support our brick and mortar stores, because if we do not, they turn to the red ink of sacrifice.

Many a day has this writer known that Anna has robbed herself in order to keep this business going.  Working tirelessly, she refuses to let anyone destroy what she has built with, and for, the community.  Endless seasons of construction blocking their signage, population shifts, and good old fashioned economic downturn sought to overwhelm the Crystal, but they are not soft, these are Michigan folk.  We hustle harder.

The indomitable Anna Calhoun rises again, fresh with a new store location and a vibe of phoenix energy as she has burned a new beacon in Penelope's Vintage.  Nestled among treasures and curiosities, she has a prime location for any psychometrist's dreams.  And with her famous gifts of mediumship and oracular prowess, we can foresee a bright future in this uniquely welcoming location.

All the things you love about The Smokey Crystal are still there.  The special merchandise, the stones, the knowledge, and the wares.  And more importantly, the same genuine warmth and fellowship are intact, along with the hardiness of the traveler.

There is still a home for those who wander into her lands, and all who do will know that they are not only not lost, they have indeed found exactly what they were looking for all along.  The rituals, Sabbats, classes, and book signings are sure to reemerge, as well as the friendly greetings of Gweni, our Pagan Michigan approved official canine family member.  You can find them online at their site, and read more about them in the Pagan Business Network's business spotlight article.

The new location for The Smokey Crystal is at 12219 Dix Toledo Rd, in Southgate.  For those who follow the blue bird of bardic electronic knowledge, you can follow them on Twitter. Call them at

(734) 796-7702, and let them know your friendly neighborhood Pagan inkslinger sent you.  Let's keep those inked accounting entries out of red and keep them black this time, for all of us.  Shop your local Pagan businesses.

A New Look at Clergy Basics

When I first wrote this piece in its original form, it was in preparation for a small book.  I presented these points in a workshop at Michigan Pagan Fest in the June of 2015.  This is basically a word for word copy of the requirements as this writer saw them at that time.

Your friendly neighborhood Detroit Paganism Examiner has been a practicing ordained minister for a very long time. Being clergy has had its ups and downs, and being Pagan clergy has certainly been challenging. The ride has been long and bumpy enough that Betty Davis would appreciate the seat belt usage involved.

That being said, since having committed to teaching an outer court grove over the last year, it has come into conversation what the basics of being clergy are. What are the commonly held standards, and who sets them? While Cherry Hill Seminary, and others, are model schools, they are not the only route to being living, practicing, clergy. Academic training is marvelous, but it does not invalidate the coven based traditions or other modalities of training.

So, in the interest of sharing some of this person's views, as well as protecting their formatted listing from plagiarism since they are going to be published in an upcoming book this summer, they will be listed here under Mistress Belladonna's guide to Pagan clergy basics.


1. You should have at least attained the age of 21. Why? Because you should be able to enter a bar and pick up your damn covener/parishioner from the damned floor and take them to the car.
2. You should also be able to enter into contracts and be able to understand them.
3. You should know the laws on Confession. And be able to use them to protect yourself and your client.
4. You should know the laws on Mandatory Reporting in your state.
5. You should know the laws and requirements governing marriages and weddings in your state. Also, in this same matter, you should know the requirements to perform a marriage for someone who has divorced and what paperwork you need.
6. You should know the protocols, procedures, and laws on Hospice, Medical Advocacy, Medical Directives, DNR orders, and rudimentary statutory will forms so that you may assist your client to get these resources.
7. You should know the laws on Birth, Paternity, FosterCare, Kinship Programs, and Adoption so that you may be a source of information and advocacy for your clients.
8. You should know the laws on Prison Ministry, even if you do not perform this service, and maintain knowledge of Prison Chaplain requirements in your state.
9. You should know the laws on Burial Rites, and have a resource guide for those making end of life decisions that you can access to assist them.
10. You should have at least a rudimentary knowledge on Substance Abuse Education and Treatment Programs. Even better, at least some training in this area.
11. You should have access to mental health service providers, and be experienced enough to know when SOMEONE'S PROBLEMS LIE OUTSIDE OF YOUR SCOPE OF LAY SPIRITUAL COUNSELING. You should know the laws on referring someone for treatment.
12. You have studied, or at least familiarized yourself with the basics of, military chaplaincy and the rights of the people of your faith group
13. You have earned the respect of you, yourself, and others in your peer group as someone who is of good character and consistency
14. You have cultivated the qualities of leadership in yourself and can undertake hard decisions with fairness and firmness, yet be able to temper them with mercy and discernment
15. If you are of a martial bent, you have the mettle and the character to be a spiritual leader, and a channel of inspiration and bravery in battle
16. You are recognized as a Judge in the community, impartial and fair, with Wisdom
17. You should have a set of basic rituals on hand that you can perform in the event you are called into service. These include, but are not limited to;

• I. Wiccaning/Baptism
• II. Wedding/Handfasting/Commitment Ceremony
• III. Divorce/HandParting Ceremony
• IV. Memorial Services
• V. Funeral Service/Rites
• VI. House Blessings
• VII. Blessing a Person
• VIII. Rites of Passage Ceremonies
• IX. Saging/Croning
• X. Warrior Rites
• XI. Queening/Fathering
• XII. Surgical/Medical Pre Prayers
• Others

18. You should be able to explain what your beliefs are and some of their history.
19. You should be able to not have to engage in shock and awe, but engage in quiet, polite, civil theological conversation in general with other ministers of their faiths about matters of spirituality and life
20. You should know the meanings behind every tool you use, every ritual, and every hand gesture you use in YOUR practices
21. You should have some sort of First Aid Training (this includes Mental First Aid)
22. You should be able to walk into a room and hold your ground, soundly, in the face of those who would ridicule you
23. You should bring no disgrace to those who associate themselves with your ministry
24. You should bring honor to your faith, and associate nothing false
25. You should be able to be an advocate for the weak, no matter the faith
26. If you are of a martial bent, you should be able to be at the forefront of social causes to the best of your ability if your conscience moves you so
27. You should have no fear, nor eat your heart, when you witness something evil or wrong and call it out

In addition to these, there are some experiences that make really good clergy. Not all, but at least some of these are necessary for a balanced view of real life.

1. You have lost someone close to you to death
2. You have had a major medical procedure
3. You have had a brush with death
4. You have had a child
5. You have dealt with someone with a substance abuse issue OR had one yourself OR both
6. You have volunteered to help those less fortunate and/or have been helped because you were less fortunate
7. You have attended the practices, rites, and ritual services of other groups on your path and on other paths and examined them objectively
8. You have led at least one person through a personal crisis
9. You have been in an accident
10. You have been married or in a long term relationship where you lived with the other person
11. You have done military service
12. You have someone in your circle who is in the military

Is this an all encompassing list? Not at all. Does it mean that academic studies are invalid? NO. They are a part of the process of growth and give the ability to convey they inner depths of understanding. However, these markers are a good way to test if you are lay clergy or are actually a representative of your beliefs through that office. It is a self test, and a community test that can be used to evaluate where you are in your practice.

Now, an important addition to this piece comes today.  After being interviewed by Goddess Rhonda, and Goddess Starr,  of the The Priestess View Show last evening, I was blessed with an more expansive view.  Something that truly is the Powers That Be working.  Hearing the insight and eloquent sharing of Rhonda, and experiencing the comments of the contributing listeners, there came a Eureka moment.

Add to this list something that should have been at the beginning.  Add to this list that which is essential.  Add to this list a simple, yet monumental thing:

TRANSPARENCY 

When acting in any leadership position, this is important.  But in Priestly, or Clergical, matters, the need for this is critical.  It is beyond vital that we appear, unadorned and free, in our dealings with others and our communities.  Our successes, our triumphs, our challenges, and yes, even our failures, must all be able to be used and put on the table as necessary.  Why?  Because by presenting the whole human experience, it it another form of ministry.

Often times people can put folks on pedestals.  Those in the helping professions and callings often are there when the night is long and dark.  This can place a glamour of sorts around the mind's image of those seen as rescuers and comforters and confidantes.  It is only by making sure we present as fully imperfect that we can go a long way towards assuring that this does not only go to their heads, but to ours as well.  Thank you, Goddesses  Rhonda and Star, for this teaching.  

This piece, in its original form,  was posted in my column, the Detroit Paganism Examiner, and was published on April 9, 2015.

Unveiling Kris Bradley's journey to becoming a Death Doula Reprint

This is a republication of my original interview with Kris Bradley on April 12, 2014 in my old column, The Detroit Paganism Examiner.  Since then, Kris has gone on to become a phenomenal Death Practitioner.  It has been a joy to watch her travel her path.

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Last evening your friendly neighborhood Detroit Paganism Examiner finished up an interview with a very special lady with a very special Calling, Kris Bradley, and learned about her Path to becoming a Death Doula, or Death Midwife. As our population grows older, hard and gentle choices are becoming more and more prominent in many people's minds. The option to have a funeral at home for End of Life care, as well as other choices, is something that needs to be discussed before it becomes a crisis point.
Enter the realm of the Death Midwife. She is the Advocate, the Guide, the one who Serves. And Kris Bradley does a service to us by giving a peek into the world into which she has found herself Journeying. So take a moment to center yourself, relax, and glimpse the world through the eyes of one who dances in the fields of Thanatos as we take a moment to learn something new from this remarkable woman.
So, first things first, I think that maybe an introduction may be in order. You are not just your average private Pagan. You are rather public. So for those who have been living in a haze of censer smoke, tell us who you are and why most of us probably know you.

Well, I don’t know if most of you will probably know me, but I hope a few will. I’m Kris Bradley, perhaps known more online as “Mrs.B.,” blogger on (the now retired) Confessions of a Pagan Soccer Mom. I’m also the author of the book “Mrs.B.’s Guide to Household Witchery.”

I am a huge fan of your work as well as your Weekly Prayer posting. You seem very committed to doing positive healing work. In that vein, can you tell us what exactly is a Death Doula?

A Death Doula serves the dying and their loved ones. They provide emotional, physical and spiritual support, sitting vigil, and helping to achieve a “good death.” They work with the patient and their family to create an individual plan to ease the transition that might include music, reading aloud, sharing family photos or various complimentary therapies such as Reiki or aromatherapy. It’s all about the patient and their needs.

What drew you to this work?

My very first introduction to the word Death Doula was in an article on The Wild Hunt about a woman who was thought to be on the verge of passing to the next life herself (she actually recovered). In speaking of her accomplishments, there was a mention of her being a Death Doula, which I had to go and look up. I felt so very drawn to the description at that point, I immediately ordered a book to read up on it. From that moment on, I knew that this would be work I’d need to be involved with at some point.

How did you find the way to get started in your studies? In other words, who were your first mentors?

Up until recently, all my studies have been self-lead. I’ve read many books on death midwifery, books on grief and books for hospice providers. I’ve watched videos to learn how to bathe a body, researched the laws on home funerals in my state. If it’s connected to this subject, I’ve researched it! I finally got to a point recently where I realized that I’ve gone about as far as I could on my own, and wanted to continue with a teacher.

What classes and training have you undertaken thus far?

Most of what I’ve taken up to now have been classes that would be considered “complimentary” classes. I’ve been a Reiki master for several years, and it will be a very useful tool in this work. I’ve also been taking a flower essence remedy class and an aromatherapy class, focusing my learning on their use in hospice type situations.

Going through the courses you already have, would you say that it is an emotionally challenging work?

Any time you plan to work with not only a dying patient, but with the grieving loved ones left behind, that’s going to definitely be emotionally challenging. One of the most vulnerable, fragile times in a person’s life is when they are grieving a death. It’s certainly not going to be easy work.

What are some of the issues involved in being a Death Doula that you have passion regarding?

My biggest passion going into this is to make sure that the patient’s needs and wants are recognized and valued. People often think, with the best of intentions, that they know what’s best for a dying family member or friend. The patient has the right to refuse visitors, refuse to “take just one more bite.” They have the right to want more hugs or less hugs or to not want pain medication. They have a voice and they have rights and those rights should be respected. A Death Doula is first and foremost an advocate for the patient.

With the major overhaul in the Health Industry, and more people entering hospice and end of life transition industries, what do you foresee the field looking like in the next five years insofar as your role?

Considering that a quarter of the U.S. Population is 55 years old or older, I think that “alternative” end of life care will be a very popular choice over the next five years and beyond. The “baby boomer” generation is already starting to choose more green options for their funerals and there are increased numbers of people starting to plan for their end of life care every year. I think that more and more people will be exploring wanting to be home for their last days and looking into the possibilities of a less expensive, more personal, home funeral.

How important is the ability to process empathy with professional distance in this work?

This is definitely a concern of mine. I am a very sensitive person and I know that there is only so much professional distance that I’ll be able to hold. I’m not sure that’s a bad thing, though. 

This is work that calls for you to care for each patient as if they were family. Though you treat them with the utmost respect and professionalism, you care for them, fight for them if necessary, and hold them dear. I’m not sure how much distance you can hold on to as you help someone transition to their next stage.

What are the resources for self care for the Death Doula?

As of right now I am unaware of any specific resource for self-care for the Death Doula outside of a few online groups. My hope is that once I’ve been certified and have enough experience, I’ll go on to teach this art locally, and create a circle of support within our community.

Now the big question, you have a fundraiser going on right now in order to accomplish your certification. Can you tell us about that?

I recently started a “Go Fund Me” campaign to help raise funds to get closer to my goal to becoming a certified Death Doula. The campaign had three goals, the last being the ability to take both parts of the certification program from Beyond Hospice. This program is an 88 hour course comprising of both online modules and a short residential program in Austin, Texas. I never expected to reach that goal, but I’ve been tremendously blessed by an outpouring of support and have gone just past my goal amount. As soon as I wrap up some current projects, I’ll be starting the online part of the program!

What will the credential allow you to do?

Technically there is no national certification or credential for Death Doula work. In the big scope of things, anyone could hang out a shingle and use that title. What the credential does offer, however, is a bit of legitimacy for those who want to see what your background is before working with you. It’s proof that you have studied and committed yourself to the work. It also gains you the knowledge, wisdom and experience of someone who’s been doing the work hands on.

Would you say that spirituality plays a large role in this work?

For me, I’d say that it plays a huge role. I’m not sure if I’d have been open to this work if I did not have a very strong faith in what I believe in and that there is something on the other side. I can’t, of course, speak for anyone else, but my spirituality is what gives me the strength to even consider this work.

As a Pagan, have you found that there is a lack of practitioners who are empathetic to nontraditional religions?

So far I’ve had no show of any concern about what my religion is at all. Many of the people I’ve been in contact with who are doing this work are themselves Pagan practitioners or are very open to the them.

Are families open to Death Doulas that may not share their beliefs?

I’ve not yet worked directly with a patient as a doula, but I can say that my emphasis will be on the beliefs of the patient, so my beliefs should not be an issue (barring anything that specifically goes against my moral or ethical beliefs, of course). Hopefully that will never crop up as an issue, but if it does, I’m prepared to explain that my beliefs are my own and I would certainly never try to push them onto anyone else, certainly not at the time of their death.

When you see yourself, five years from now, what are you visualizing your Path to have developed?

In five years I’d like to be at a place where I’ve been working steadily in this field and have created my own workshops to help others come into the field as well. I’d like to be an active, working asset to my community.

If the readers come away with only one thing from this article about Death Doulas, what would you like that to be?

The one thing I’d like to leave those reading this article is to know that there are people out there that can help you in your time of grief. They can help you get organized, create a plan for a good death, and will sit by your side in vigil. There is no need to be alone or worry that your wishes will not be carried out, because there are advocates out there for you.

To learn more about becoming a Death Doula or Death Midwife, please visit Safer Midwifery For Michigan's page to find out more about Michigan information.

To get to know a little about Kris Bradley the author, check out her book "Mrs. B's Guide to Household Witchery",

Blessed Be.

A holiday musing for my readers during this time of celebration

(To the tune of "Jingle Bells")

Solstice Dash

Dashing through the snow,
With all my witchy swag
Anointed head to toe
The belladonna is in my bag

Datura in my purse
To speed my spirit flight
Amber on my neck
Such a glowing sight

Oh, Solstice time
Spake in rhyme
And other holidays

No matter what the name they use
The Sun comes any way

Copper chimes
Cords that wind
Mistletoe and hay
Oh what fun to see the light
Of the dances of the Fae

Brewing up tisanes
And cocoas spiked with herbs
Bread bowls and meat stews
With friends, meals are superb

Resetting crystal grids
And knotting up my cords
Oh what fun to dance and sing
And consecrate my swords

Oh, Solstice time
Spake in rhyme
And other holidays

No matter what the name they use
The Sun comes any way

Whether casting in the round
Or the wheel itself we tread
Baking grain that's ground
Or eating ebon bread

No matter who you love
Or Tradition that you oath
Share an ale with kin or coven mates
Or maybe just do both

Oh, Solstice time
Spake in rhyme
And other holidays

No matter what the name they use
The Sun comes any way

by

Kenya Coviak aka Mistress Belladonna

By Ida Rentoul Outhwaite [Public domain], via Wikimedia Commons

Native American Smudge Class at Gemini Moon and why you really should go

Bright Blessings!

This Saturday, at Gemini Moon in Mt. Clemens, Glenn Brown will be teaching about Native American Smudging starting at 7:00 p.m..  For those of us here in what this writer likes to refer to as Pure Pagan Michigan, this is important in a very personal way.  You see, dear reader, there is an issue, an elephant in the room, that no one talks about anymore.

The issue is that currently, everywhere you look, people are using the term "smudge" every time they light up some sage or other fumigation materials.  And this, dear readers, PISSES ME OFF.  WHY?

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The term Smudge belongs to a specific style and cultural matrix, that of the First Nations of this continent.  It is a form of Smoke Cleansing.  There are many forms.  And pay very close attention to this next part:  Witches and other Pagans have stolen and burgled their house and taken it for themselves just as pretty as you please.

Every time someone fumes, or censes, a person in a public rituals of late, that term seems to rear up like a tarantula in a nature video in Australia.  Seriously.  And while it has become common practice to  the point where people do not even acknowledge that it is misapplied, the word Smudge is not something that is just folks fuming someone.  Unless you have been trained in the prep, use, purpose, and the care of the Medicines, there is a question to be asked:

WHO. TOLD. YOU. THAT. USING. THAT. WORD. WAS. OKAY?

Yes, good gentlefolk, this is appropriation.  And it is done under the dirty banner of eclecticism and ignorance.  But those who know better should try to do better.

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Glenn Brown will be teaching in the Lakota tradition, and is knowledgeable about many ways of smoke cleansing.  The use of white sage, and other herbs & resins will be expounded on in regard to their use for the clearance of negative energy.  The cost is  $20.00 per person and they ask that you  RSVP in order to ensure you have a seat, because space is limited.  You can call 586-222-2836, and while at it, why no phone a friend and invite them as well.

Blessed Be and Save A Seat for ME

And now, for a little humor for my readers who made it to the bottom.